About The Song
Let’s rewind the tape to 1973, a time of platform shoes, swirling flares, and a burgeoning Swedish pop group named ABBA taking the world by storm. Known for their infectious melodies, catchy hooks, and a seemingly endless supply of glitter, ABBA dominated the charts with anthems like “Dancing Queen” and “Waterloo.” But beneath the dazzling costumes and energetic performances, ABBA’s music often explored themes that resonated far deeper than a fleeting disco beat.
One such song is the lesser-known gem, “Love Isn’t Easy (But It Sure Is Hard Enough)”. Released on their debut album, Ring Ring, this track offers a refreshingly honest portrayal of love – a stark contrast to the idealized, fairytale romances often depicted in pop music.
For many of us who grew up with ABBA’s music, the initial association might be with their bright, upbeat persona. But as we’ve matured, so too has our appreciation for the band’s ability to capture the complexities of human emotions. “Love Isn’t Easy” speaks directly to those of us who have navigated the sometimes-choppy waters of relationships.
The song’s title itself is a blunt statement, a declaration that challenges the romanticized notion of love. It sets the stage for lyrics that delve into the disillusionment that can creep into a relationship over time. The singer reminisces about the early days, filled with “sweet, sweet talk” that seems to have dwindled. There’s a hint of disappointment as she observes her partner’s inattentiveness, contrasting it with the initial intensity of their connection.
However, “Love Isn’t Easy” isn’t a surrender to despair. Despite the challenges, the song underscores a commitment to the relationship. The lyrics plead for “patience,” acknowledging that love requires constant effort and nurturing. There’s a flicker of hope, a belief that with time and dedication, “our love will grow.”
“Love Isn’t Easy (But It Sure Is Hard Enough)” resonates with those of us who recognize that lasting love isn’t a preordained destination, but rather a journey filled with its share of detours and roadblocks. It’s a testament to ABBA’s enduring appeal – their ability to capture not just the euphoria of love, but also the grit and determination it takes to make it work in the real world.