About The Song
Released as a single only in Japan, “That’s Me” might not be an ABBA anthem as instantly recognizable as “Dancing Queen” or “Mamma Mia!” However, for those who delve a little deeper, it offers a fascinating glimpse into the psyche of a woman who defies easy categorization.
The song opens with a question, a hesitant invitation: “Are you sure you wanna hear more?” This line immediately sets the tone for a confessional, a woman baring her soul, perhaps unsure of the reception she’ll receive. She acknowledges that she might not be the “style you’d be looking for,” hinting at a vulnerability and a fear of rejection.
But beneath this initial uncertainty lies a fierce independence. She readily admits to emotional swings, “I’m jealous and I’m proud/ If you hurt my feelings I’ll cry out loud.” This honesty is refreshing, a stark contrast to the often-expected facade of unwavering strength.
The song progresses with a series of intriguing contradictions. She declares, “I’m Carrie not-the-kind-of-girl-you’d-marry,” yet later sings, “There’s a special love/ Like an eagle flying with a dove.” Is she rejecting commitment, or simply yearning for a love that embraces her complexity?
“That’s Me” is a song that defies simple labels. It’s a conversation starter, an invitation to see beyond the surface and appreciate the multifaceted nature of a woman who is both strong and vulnerable, independent yet yearning for connection. As the song fades, we’re left with a lingering sense of empathy for this intriguing character, a testament to ABBA’s ability to craft songs that resonate on a deeper level.