About The Song
Released in 1964, the song takes a surprisingly lighthearted look at the aftermath of a lovers’ quarrel. Back then, The Ronettes – Veronica Bennett, Estelle Bennett, and Ronnie Spector – were known for their sophisticated style and powerful vocals, often delivering songs about love and heartbreak. (The Best Part Of) Breakin’ Up doesn’t stray from that theme, but it presents a unique perspective – one that might resonate with anyone who’s experienced the highs and lows of a young relationship.
The song opens with a familiar scene: a fight, tears welling up, and the sting of rejection. But then, something unexpected happens. The singer, with a voice that’s both youthful and knowing, confesses, “Every time you leave I get those teardrops in my eyes / But they seem to go away when you apologize.” There’s a hint of frustration, perhaps, but also a surprising acceptance.
The heart of the song lies in the playful, almost defiant, chorus: “Tell me why (tell me why) I wanna know (I wanna know) / Tell me why (tell me why) is it so (is it so) / That the best part of breaking up is when you’re making up.” This isn’t a celebration of conflict, but rather an honest portrayal of the intense emotions that come with young love. The anger and hurt are real, but so is the longing for reconciliation. Perhaps, the song suggests, the passionate reunion after a fight makes the love all the sweeter.
(The Best Part Of) Breakin’ Up isn’t just a catchy tune; it’s a clever look at the complexities of love. It reminds us that sometimes, the strongest bonds are forged in the fires of arguments and passionate make-ups. So, the next time you find yourself in a lovers’ spat, take a moment to remember The Ronettes. There might just be a silver lining waiting on the other side of that fight.